Celebrating the Oxford Academy Class of 2025

“Sometimes, the most meaningful legacy isn’t what you create, but whom you inspire when no one else can.”
— Phil Cocchiola, Head of School, 2025

Graduation is always a milestone, but at Oxford Academy in Westbrook, Connecticut, each commencement carries a special meaning. Nestled along the Long Island Sound, Oxford is unlike any other school. It is a small, all-boys boarding school built on a powerful idea: that one-to-one teaching can transform lives. Here, every young man learns not in a crowded classroom, but side by side with a dedicated teacher who adapts lessons to his individual strengths, challenges, and aspirations. For students with learning differences such as ADHD, this model provides the focus, encouragement, and flexibility they need to flourish.

And flourish they have. The Class of 2025 stands as a testament to what is possible when students are truly seen, supported, and inspired. Every one of this year’s graduates has not only completed his studies but is also stepping confidently into the future — with 100% of the class pursuing college or personal development programs. Their journeys remind us that education is not just about grades or tests, but about nurturing character, resilience, and passion.

This year’s commencement ceremony captured that spirit beautifully. Head of School Phil Cocchiola honored each senior by comparing him to a musical instrument, a tribute that highlighted both individuality and harmony — fitting symbols for a class that blended diverse talents into a shared Oxford experience.

Let us celebrate each graduate and the unique music he brings to the world.

Charlie, leader, athlete, boxer, outdoorsman, dedicated to his peers

From Hammersmith, United Kingdom, taking a gap year in Australia
Social Studies Award for Superior Achievement
Art Achievement
Headmaster award

If Charlie were a musical instrument, he would be a grand piano—classic, commanding, and full of strength. Like the piano, Charlie carries himself with relaxed confidence; he doesn’t need to raise his voice to be heard. His presence speaks for itself; whether in moments of celebration or challenge, he strikes just the right chord.

As a leader, he has the rare ability to set the tone for those around him—not by force, but by example. Thoughtful, composed, and steady, Charlie embodies a natural poise that makes everything seem effortless—even when it isn’t. He balances tradition with forward thinking, much like a timeless piece of music played with fresh emotion.

Charlie listens as well as he leads, and that quiet strength has brought out the best in others. There’s a sense of reliability about him—you know that when Charlie is in the room, things will be all right. Hissense of humor is the perfect note at the end of a serious phrase—witty, unexpected, and always well-timed.

Charlie, you have been not just a leader here at Oxford but a role model and a friend to the entire community. You leave behind a legacy of grace, good cheer, and steady strength. Wherever you go next, we know the world will be better for having you in it. Thank you for everything you’ve done for all of us here at Oxford.

Xander, leader, Tolkien fan, math & science, Magic The Gathering

From New York, and attending the Rochester Institute of Technology
Mathematics Achievement Award, Foreign Language Award for Passion and Curiosity in Spanish

If Xander were a musical instrument, he would be an electric violin. Unexpected, inventive, and always a little ahead of the curve, the electric violin is a bold reinvention of a classic instrument, capable of producing sounds that range from hauntingly beautiful to vibrantly electric. Like Xander, it doesn’t settle for tradition alone; it pushes boundaries, blending the timeless with the modern and the precise with the experimental. Just as the electric violin can switch effortlessly from a soft melodic whisper to an electrifying high-energy solo, Xander adapts seamlessly to different situations—whether strategizing in a game, solving a tough problem, or lighting up a room with his humor. His amplified sound carries far and commands attention, yet it also allows for subtlenuances and layers, much like the complexity of Xander’s personality.

There’s a fusion of art and technology in this instrument, requiring both skill and creativity to master—just like how Xander combines logic and imagination in everything he does. Although it’s not the most common instrument in the orchestra, when it plays, it leaves an unforgettable mark. Xander, thank you for leaving a lasting and unforgettable impression on our community.

Will, musician, songwriter, artist

From Winston Salem, North Carolina, attending Forsyth Technical Community College

If Will were a musical instrument, he’d be a trombone—bold, flexible, and full of character. The trombone doesn’t rely on buttons or keys; it glides, slides, and sometimes squeaks. But when it locks in, the sound is rich and unforgettable—just like Will. It might have a few wobbly notes early on, but give it time, and it’ll blow the roof off the place.

Let’s be honest: Will’s journey hasn’t always been a perfectly tuned symphony. There have been moments—like a trombone player in a marching band on a windy day—where things got offbeat, sideways, or just plain stuck. But the best thing about Will is that he never gave up. He kept showing up, adjusting the slide, and finding his rhythm. When he bounced back, he didn’t just return; he came back tenfold—louder, prouder, and with way more confidence.

The trombone is also one of the few instruments that can be both soulful and slightly silly at the same time—which is part of Will’s charm. He can make you think deeply one minute and laugh out loud the next. That blend of sincerity and spontaneity is rare—and it’s what makes him such a memorable presence in this community.

Will, your musical journey has come a long way, and the best part is—you’re just getting started. Whatever stage you find yourself on next, don’t forget your slide. Keep playing with that big-hearted, slightly offbeat, totally authentic style that’s all your own.

Will, health science enthusiast, fisherman

From Long Island, NY, and attending St. Joseph’s College, Long Island, to study nursing

If Will were a musical instrument, he’d be a cello—steady, warm, and deeply resonant. The cello doesn’t clamor for attention, but its presence is always felt; it brings depth and comfort, often carrying the emotional heart of the music. In moments of chaos, its soothing tones ground the orchestra, just as Will brings calm and reassurance to those around him.

The cello may not play the flashiest solos, but when it speaks, people listen and feel its quiet confidence, its wisdom woven into every note. It possesses a strength that holds everything together without seeking the spotlight. Similarly, Will is a rare, kind individual who notices when others are struggling and steps in with quiet, steady care. His instinct to serve is complemented by his ability to listen with empathy and intention—gifts that make someone a truly great healer.

Will, your quiet strength and caring nature will undoubtedly make you an incredible nurse. Thank you for the compassion you’ve shared with our community. You’ve made the most of your opportunity here, and we are excited to see you begin your journey in nursing school.

Tresor, thoughtful leader by example, athlete, photographer, and videographer

From Rwanda, and attending Jefferson Community and Technical College in Louisville, Kentucky
Athletic Award
Distinguished Science Scholar Award for International Understanding
Superior Academic Achievement

If Tresor were a musical instrument, he would be a drum—resounding, steady, and full of life. Like adrum, Tresor carries the heartbeat of the group. His leadership isn’t about volume but about rhythm—setting the pace, keeping others in sync, and bringing energy and unity to the moment. He is grounded, reliable, and strong, yet capable of incredible nuance—leading not just with strength but with feeling and awareness.

The drum is one of the oldest instruments—timeless, essential, and communal. It’s used not only to create music but also to gather people, tell stories, and announce something important. In much the same way, Tresor brings people together. He doesn’t just speak; he communicates. When he moves, others move with him. His leadership is never forced; it flows naturally from his presence, integrity, and deep sense of purpose.

There is also celebration in the drum—joy, culture, and memory. Tresor carries his roots with pride, and his voice crosses boundaries with warmth and power. He has shown that true leadership isn’t about standing above others but standing with them—with clarity, strength, and a generous heart. Tresor, you’ve been a steady beat in the rhythm of this community, and we’re grateful for the harmony you’ve helped create. May the world hear your drum—may it sound like one of courage, wisdom, and hope.

Turner, train buff, engineering enthusiast

From Atlanta, Georgia and attending High Point University to study engineering
Excellence in Literature & Composition

If Turner were a musical instrument, he’d be a tuba—strong, constant, and always keeping everything on track. The tuba may sit quietly in the back row, but don’t be fooled; it provides the foundation that holds the whole piece together. Like a train rumbling steadily down the tracks, the tuba drives the rhythm forward with power and purpose.

Just like that, Turner brings a grounded presence wherever he goes—calm, dependable, and built for the long haul. There’s something wonderfully rhythmic about the way Turner moves through the world; he’s not in a rush, but he’s always going somewhere meaningful. He thinks like an engineer, listens like a conductor, and somehow always knows where things are headed.

Much like a tuba, when Turner speaks or laughs, you feel it in your chest. The tuba might not play the showy solos, but when it gets its moment, it’s unforgettable—rich, deep, and full of character. That’s Turner: quietly observant until it really counts, and then suddenly he’s the heartbeat of the room.

Turner, your quiet humor and steady spirit have been a joy to witness. Wherever the next track leads, we hope you keep laying them down with your signature blend of thoughtfulness, curiosity, and quiet strength. Full steam ahead!

Eddie, athlete, photographer, chef, community mainstay

From New York, From New York, attending LIve Strong in Utah (PG)
Award for Most Significant Academic Progress

If Eddie were a musical instrument, he’d be a clarinet on a sugar rush—bright, lively, and always ready to riff. The clarinet is known for its ability to dance across octaves, weave through melodies, and keep going long after everyone else has taken a breath. Sound familiar? Eddie just doesn’t talk; he performs—his thoughts tumble out like fast-moving notes, quick, clever, and impossible to ignore.

The clarinet can be playful, jazzy, and even mischievous, and so can Eddie. Whether he’s asking 37questions in a row, cracking jokes mid-lecture, or launching into a story with no clear ending in sight, he brings energy and spontaneity to every room he enters. Now, sure, sometimes you wonder where he’s going with it, but by the end, you’re laughing, listening, and somehow learning something unexpected.

Don’t let the endless talking fool you—Eddie listens too. He’s the kind of person who remembers the small things you said weeks ago, circles back with thoughtfulness, and knows just how to cheer someone up. Like a great performer, he knows when to be the star and when to harmonize. Eddie, your voice—figuratively and literally—has been a big part of what’s made this place come alive. You fill the halls with sound, spirit, and a whole lot of laughter. Keep speaking your mind, sharing your stories, and playing your one-of-a-kind music. And just maybe, give your future roommates a little warning first! I’ll miss our daily morning conversations.

Alex, pianist, computer programming buff, digital artist

From Mclean, Virginia, Studying with the College Internship Program

If Alex were a musical instrument, he would be a French horn—ironic because Alex is a talented piano player. The French horn is well-designed, intense, and occasionally bold. It doesn’t often seek the spotlight, but when it speaks, its voice is unmistakable—round, earnest, and full of vigor. Like the horn, Alex brings a kind of understated ability to everything he does. He’s thoughtful, measured, and precise, yet he knows exactly when to make a moment soar.

The French horn requires both finesse and courage—it’s one of the most challenging instruments to play—and that’s fitting, because Alex makes difficult things look easy. Just watch him play the piano; whether he’s navigating a tricky passage or solving a tough problem in class, he does so with quiet confidence. Much like the horn, he adds harmony wherever he goes, lifting those around him simply by being present.

Alex, your musical talents and calm strength have been a gift to this community. You’ve shown us that excellence doesn’t need to shout—it can sing clear, true, and unforgettable.